Daughters 16, from the age of 8, I bring her one. I’m going to marry a man with whom I have been dating for 6 years, we have been living together. We do not plan children. The daughter is still jealous, or rather, does not tolerate when he supports me in education. There are no bullying on his part
. I am more provided than he. The daughter measures everything with money and believes that his financial injections could be more significant. I fully provide her, and quite good, but it seems to her that it could be more. Although I myself am still young, I work with people and try to look good. But even she says to me for buying an extra rag.
Good day, Natalia. From your message I see that you have occupied the role of a child, and your daughter is the eldest. It is not right.
For some reason, her criticism puts you into a state of a child. I see a transfer here. Who talked with you, who depreciated achievements – important for you as a child and empty for your parents? Mom or dad?
It is important for you to deal with this trigger precisely. You seem to have no place in your family. You can’t choose your role and your rights.
Plus, for a teenager, this behavior is more likely. The daughter is now studying her borders, invades strangers, so she learns to live.
Remember to yourself! It’s important to look good, and not only among people. How long have you done something for yourself? Why do your daughter’s remarks cause your guilt? All this is from your childhood. I recommend contacting a psychologist or passing a good separation course from parents.
There is even no question in your letter. It is offense that sounds. As if a daughter should be the way you imagined. And this is very similar to the expectations of your parents from you.
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